Making Your Dreams a Reality – Discovering Your Dharma

  Purpose.  Dharma.  Your highest calling.  The divine connection that guides your actions with power and gives meaning to your life.  With it, you are literally doing God’s work, powerful, strong, engaged, fulfilled as a man.  Without it, you’re like the other shadowy slacker husks of men walking the world, lost in distraction, henpecked by frustrated and unfulfilled women in your life, life going nowhere. There are a lot of guys – boys, really – who have figured out how to “create attraction” and pick up girls.  You don’t have to be a real man to get laid a lot, and most of these little pricks out there talking about “alpha male” are walking around with no purpose and no integrity apart from their commitment to get laid and brag about it to others to gain status.  And what happens to these guys?  Well, the stories are very similar – they get good at picking up women, but often suck at choosing and keeping women.  Sure they get laid a lot, which is a big deal if you’re someone whose not getting laid much and feels he has a lack of options, but their lives are filled with drama – [...]

The Myth of “Social Status”

I came across this recording from Rion Freeberg: relm51sample And if you haven’t already, you need to get over to his website and forum:  www.self-awakening.com  There are a lot of amazing things going on over there that’ll blow open your perceptions. What he said parallels the reality I’ve been discovering, which is that the whole concept of “social status” is nothing but an invention.  It is a story we tell ourselves without any real truth behind it.  And it is one of the most common and insidious ways we limit ourselves and our enjoyment of life, and that’s as true for me as it is for anyone else. Society has created this concept of “social status,” this idea that people are at certain “levels” of social status.  Certain people are “cool,” rock stars, actors, certain professions or behaviors, maybe the style of clothing, all these things and other things combine to create this supposed “social status.”  We put people on pedestals and afford them things, we’re afraid to talk to certain people, or we disregard others.  Basically we give away our power to this thing called “social status.”  And it’s confirmed because other people are doing the same thing, which [...]

Power

I’m feeling this surge of personal power and masculine energy. I got real and I’m facing a long-held fear and limitation head on, with no illusions that I can “NLP” my way out of it. Honest confrontation and real effort coupled with patience, self-acceptance and a knowing I will succeed. And surprisingly, I am seeing this will transform my life completely. And I’ve created an awesome hypnotic script to go with this that’s… I’m amazed at what I can do.

The “Awesomeness” Podcast is Changing My Life

I’m careful about what I promote and, aside from my book and my coaching, I don’t get a cent for anything I’m promoting.  I’m also very careful not to toot my own horn.  But this has been spectacular for me – and it’s free.  My latest podcast is a guided meditation that installs a calm, relaxed, happy, confident state that you carry with you everywhere you go.  And every time you listen to it, this state gets stronger. My podcasts are here: http://herotransformation.podbean.com/  I’ve been listening to this every day no for a little over a week.  Despite the fact the recording quality isn’t that great, I’m not too thrilled with my “hypnoic voice” and there is background noise in the recording,  it’s having an incredible effect.  And others don’t really notice these things as much because it’s my recording, so there’s a part of me in edit mode that wouldn’t be the case for you listening.  So despite the imperfections, and that I know what’s coming, it’s having a surprising effect. My state is getting lighter, more relaxed, more peaceful.  I’m looking at things differently and finding myself challenging parts of my life that aren’t bringing me enjoyment.  It’s [...]

New Podcast: Installing “Feeling Confident and Awesome”

My latest podcasting episode is special:  http://herotransformation.podbean.com/2012/01/28/podcast-4-feeling-awesome/ Let’s cut to the chase.  You can spend years finding bliss or you can start living it now.  This podcast, which frankly I’m insane for giving away for free, installs the base state of relaxation and bliss – premanently, naturally.  A state you can have forever – relaxation, confidence, sexiness, magnetic attraction – feel it now in this guided meditation.  Every time you listen to this, and every time you meditate on this meditation, the state is installed stronger and more powerfully, naturally cleaning out things that get between you and the state of relaxed happiness you deserve.  In a matter of weeks, or even days or hours, you can be living in this state of relaxation and radiance, living as an entirely new you. Yes, it is that easy.  And free for now.  So take advantage and start living the life you deserve.      

Let’s All Be Thai!

I found this wonderful little article on Thai phrases: http://www.thingsasian.com/stories-photos/2489 Lately I’ve been having these vivid dreams and fantasies about letting go of everything, moving to Thailand and becoming a part of this wonderful country and culture.  I thought these were escapism fantasies, but now I realize this is my heart talking. Look at the phrases – all about letting go, relaxing, taking it easy, no problem, love and enjoying life.  And notice how Westerners are referred to as “crazy.” And what am I doing?  What’s all this effort I’m pouring into this work for?  It’s so I can help lead you into this wonderful, relaxed state of being, full of love and appreciation, and loving life.  Getting rid of all that inner craziness and embracing what’s really important in life. So, fuck yah, I want to leave all this bullshit and be really happy – and I want that for you, too.

New Site From Aaron Nichols

For those who have purchesed “The Phone Booth,” you know I’ve recommended Aaron Nichols for training in subtle energy, sensuality and sexual enhancement.  He’s now offering a broad range of services at his new website: http://www.intimatepath.com/ I continue to recommend Aaron highly and suggest you check out his site and, if you’re inspired, use his services.  He has offerings for both men and women and covers a wide range of areas that will greatly enhance your life.  This is someone I know personally and can say with complete confidence this is someone who is trustworthy and committed to enhancing your life.  He’ll definately do right by you.

The Shen Technique – EFT on Steriods?

  I’ve been experimenting with a killer energy releasing/ healing technique called the “Shen Technique.”  Here are four videos that explain the technique and how to do it:  1:   Shen Video #1 2:   Shen Video #2 3:   Shen Video #3 4:   Shen Video #4 After using this very simple technique for over a month, and hearing the success stories of others who have been trying out this technique, I can say this is a VERY effective way to release negative energy and heal yourself.  I’d even go so far as to say this is superior to EFT for releasing. Here’s how I do it.  Twice a day, morning and evening, I would spend five minutes using Shen.  I’d start by releasing whatever negative or painful things are in my system, starting with bodily pain, then moving to emotional and finally spiritual negativity.  I’d go into a light self-hypnotic trance and evoke the negative issue, put all my focus on that issue, do the Shen technique, and that’s it.  Then move on to the next issue and let Shen work its magic. A light self-hypnotic trance can be attained through my grounding technique, which is in episode one of my podcast www.herotransformation.podbean.com and [...]

Think You’re “Too Happy” for Coaching?

When you imagine personal coaching, do you assume there must be a problem to be solved? Do you assume that people who seek out help, either through coaching or self-improvement programs, are unhappy and are looking for help to “get better?” Is it your current belief that happy people don’t use professional coaching or assistance? How surprised would you be to learn that coaching and “self-improvement” actually works better on happy, well-adjusted people than those with “issues?” Is it possible that people who are already happy can make more dramatic changes in their lives, and derive even more benefit from coaching, than unhappy people? I love helping people who are looking to clear out their “issues,” and I’ve seen some incredible results. I recall in my own life the years I spent being unhappy and desperately wanting to “break free” of my problems and be happy. But my greatest growth has occurred after I was able burn through my issues and started living life as a happy person. My life has been much more dynamic and my change has been far more dramatic after the issues disappeared and I wasn’t “looking for help.” And the really fun part of my [...]

Increase Your Personal Magnetism Instantly

Want to increase your personal magnetism and feel what it’s like to be experiencing you “presonal magnetism?” This surprisingly simple exercise does that: http://youtu.be/gr0O0wBWHlo I did this one myself and was pretty amazed at the results. This is a powerful, simple exercise tha gets immediate results. Let me know how it works for you.