When you imagine personal coaching, do you assume there must be a problem to be solved? Do you assume that people who seek out help, either through coaching or self-improvement programs, are unhappy and are looking for help to “get better?” Is it your current belief that happy people don’t use professional coaching or assistance?
How surprised would you be to learn that coaching and “self-improvement” actually works better on happy, well-adjusted people than those with “issues?” Is it possible that people who are already happy can make more dramatic changes in their lives, and derive even more benefit from coaching, than unhappy people?
I love helping people who are looking to clear out their “issues,” and I’ve seen some incredible results. I recall in my own life the years I spent being unhappy and desperately wanting to “break free” of my problems and be happy. But my greatest growth has occurred after I was able burn through my issues and started living life as a happy person. My life has been much more dynamic and my change has been far more dramatic after the issues disappeared and I wasn’t “looking for help.”
And the really fun part of my work is doing good with clients without having anything “bad” to begin with. We get to explore new possibilities, take on new challenges, have adventures, and experience enhanced joys and pleasures, free from limitations. And people who are happy and free love new adventures. People who are happy and free are filled with excitement about the possibilities and can’t wait to expand their life in amazing new ways.
And maybe you’re one of those “happy people.” And maybe you’ve been looking for a guide to exciting new adventures. Maybe you didn’t consciously realize you were even looking. But something drew you here, and now you feel that “click,” that “a-ha” that tells you “yes, this is what I want – lead me to that new adventure!”
Or perhaps you can feel that “happy person” inside you, but that person is muted or blocked by some things. You see other people who are happy and free and yearn for that. Because you know you are ready for those adventures yourself. And all you need is someone to help you let go of those blocks, point the way and say “Go! Go have your adventure now!”
I’m not here to spend session after session going back and reliving all the painful crap you’ve experienced and calling it “therapy.” We’ve all experienced painful crap in our past. That’s not important now. What’s important is that you aren’t sitting there dwelling on visions from days gone by, but that you’re up and running down the path of adventure, excitement, pleasure and fun. Because that’s what we were born to do! So I want to help you push aside all those blocks, wind up your motor, and get you racing down your path into an awesome, carefree life of pleasure as quickly as possible.
I want to get you into that rock star personality of your dreams and have you off the couch and in the real world doing things that make your “less-than-happy” friends jealous and amazed to the point where they have no but to come see me and get themselves some of that magic tonic.
So whether you’re reading this and thinking “I want to be happy like that,” or you’re reading this thinking “I’m already happy, why would I need coaching?” you’re ready. And I’m ready for you.