When you imagine personal coaching, do you assume there must be a problem to be solved? Do you assume that people who seek out help, either through coaching or self-improvement programs, are unhappy and are looking for help to “get better?” Is it your current belief that happy people don’t use professional coaching or assistance? How surprised would you be to learn that coaching and “self-improvement” actually works better on happy, well-adjusted people than those with “issues?” Is it possible that people who are already happy can make more dramatic changes in their lives, and derive even more benefit from coaching, than unhappy people? I love helping people who are looking to clear out their “issues,” and I’ve seen some incredible results. I recall in my own life the years I spent being unhappy and desperately wanting to “break free” of my problems and be happy. But my greatest growth has occurred after I was able burn through my issues and started living life as a happy person. My life has been much more dynamic and my change has been far more dramatic after the issues disappeared and I wasn’t “looking for help.” And the really fun part of my [...]
We all start off with game. Human beings come naturally programmed to connect with the opposite sex, to play, to appreciate, to love. Somewhere along the line, many of us are told our natural tendencies are “bad,” or we’re “doing it wrong.” Instead of being fun and natural, open connection with the opposite sex is a “big deal.” We assign status to it. We create anxiety around it. We beat ourselves and each other up for being too open, or not open enough. And in Western society, we take all the fun out of it. We overanalyze it, we obsess over it, we judge it, we objectify it, we commercialize it, we dehumanize it to the point where “rational” people dispute the existence of love and the value of sexual connection. I’m going to tell you something – as long as you buy into the idea that connecting with the opposite sex is a “big deal,” assign it all this meaning, and value yourself and others based on this artificial “status model,” you are living in the matrix and you are living a diminished life. Here’s something none of the “pick up artists,” dating coaches, religious leaders or advertisers want [...]
http://youtu.be/NWynPn45M_A This video gives a great theoretical/ logical explanation of “the matrix” that keeps us trapped in this cycle of lack and unhappiness. It also explains how problems can be easily solved at “higher levels,” which is exactly what my work does. What you’ll see in this video is that the feeling of lack is not cured by “getting what you want,” it’s only temporarily satiated. “Neediness” is cured at a higher level. In my work, that’s courage, self-acceptance and gratitute, as well as reframing your concept of sexual polarity. The end result is you’re out of that wanting/ gratification/ frustration matrix, you feel happy and free, you’re considerably more attractive and attracting higher energy people into your life. Which means, more rewarding relationships, better sex, more confidence, more joy, more of the things you used to want and no wanting or lack. Sounds pretty good, huh?
Want to increase your personal magnetism and feel what it’s like to be experiencing you “presonal magnetism?” This surprisingly simple exercise does that: http://youtu.be/gr0O0wBWHlo I did this one myself and was pretty amazed at the results. This is a powerful, simple exercise tha gets immediate results. Let me know how it works for you.